Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Home

We made it back from our trip to New York. It was a great trip, and all of my worries about going there turned out to be just that...worries. Nothing more.

We had a wonderful time and I'm glad I don't have to be back at work right away so I can take some time to recover. We walked way more in those 5 days than I think we walked the rest of the year!

Instead of posting a bunch of pictures here (I took over 300) I'll just direct you to my Flickr photostream. If you've been checking in over the past couple of days, I'm sure you've seen those four thumbnails on the right changing every couple of hours as I upload.

I've created a few sets on Flickr to kind of categorize things, so if you want to see the wedding pictures or touristy things, or architecture, pictures of our family, gargoyles, or pictures of the Brooklyn Bridge (yes, I took enough pictures of it for its own category), they're all there. You don't have to go wading through all of them to see the things you like.

I think we're going to have to go back. Soon. The list of things we didn't do is about as long as the list of things we did do.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Watch out, American Idol

Rachel started singing this in the car with me the other day, and every time it comes on she asks to hear it again.

New address

One of the many changes you'll notice around here is that Laleblog has a new address. I've been trying to get my entire website a little better organized, and one of the ways I wanted to do that was to create a subdomain especially for Laleblog. The new address is http://blog.namelal.com - that's it. Nothing else to remember, nothing else to type. It's a little more simple than the old address and it allows me to keep all of the blog stuff out of the main site folder.

GEEK SPEAK AHEAD
If you happen to view this site via a feed reader, the feed will be changing as of today too. After today, the new feed will be located at http://blog.namelal.com/atom.xml

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

In case you hadn't noticed, Laleblog is going through a few changes. It started off as a little tweak to the code to allow me to post larger pictures, because we all know, bigger is better. It's turning into a little more tweaking here and there, so be on the lookout for new things soon, and bear with me through the mistakes.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Twenty Four Months

Dear Rachel,

Yesterday, you turned two years old. Two years!

Birthday Girl
The difference between boys and girls

We had a big party for you on Sunday, the day before your birthday, and lots of friends and family came to help you celebrate. You were very excited about your presents, and actually understood that they were for your birthday. Since you got a few presents early, you would point to them, sitting on Sparky's kennel and say "for my birthday." We've had a very busy month with you, and next month is looking to be even more busy.

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The temper tantrums that you were throwing last month have subsided a bit, because we've started telling you when things are coming up. We never thought that it would be helpful to warn you, but the Great and Powerful Internet told us that we should tell you that we're going to clean up in a few minutes, or that you're going to take a bath after dinner and then go to bed. Who knew that simply telling you what was next would help curb those fits?

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You are starting to have entire conversations with people now, even on the phone. The other day, your mother put you on the phone with me and you said, clear as day, "What are you doing?" and I told you that I was coming home. When I asked what you were doing, you told me that you were helping Mama water. Simple as that, like you'd been talking your whole life. There are still times when we have to pause and consider what you're saying in context, but overall, we can figure out or just plain hear what it is that you're trying to tell us. We repeat back to you what we think you've said and you either tell us no or yes depending on whether we get it right or not.

Exploring

Speaking of the phone, every time the phone rings, you make sure to tell us, and then proceed to ask if you can talk to whoever it is on the other end. You're getting really good at talking on the phone because your speech is improving so much.

Relaxing

You also started counting to us this month, and you can count to 10 on your own pretty consistently. We still need to get you started, but once you hit four, you can take off on your own. I love to listen to you say seven because it comes out at "sen-en." You've also started actually saying "I love you" instead of your shortened "fu."

Rachel in the wildflowers

The big exciting thing for you this month has been car washes. Yes, car washes. I have no idea what it is that fascinates you about the car wash, but every time we pass one in the car you have to point it out.

"Dada!"
"Yes Rachel?"
"Is a wash? CAR!"
"Yes, it's a car wash"

You even know that there are different varieties of car wash - the touchless ones at the gas station, the self serve ones down the road from us, and the Wash Tub, where they hand dry and detail your car.

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We had to work on you with your manners quite a bit this month and it's paying off. You no longer run up and stick your nose in people's crotches or jump on them when they come through the door. Wait...wrong child. You started off the month saying "Yeah" almost all the time. It took a few weeks of me frowning at you, and correcting you even when I knew you were just playing a game, but it's paid off. Of course, in the meantime, your mother and I have also started correcting our own speech because you were only repeating what you'd heard. Saying "yes" has become a habit for all of us, and we sound much more polite because of it. Along with "yes," you've also started saying "thank you." You had please down a couple of months ago, but one day you came home from Judy's and everything we did for you was met with the sweetest little "dink doooo, dink dooo Dada, dink dooo Mama." Cute and polite. A deadly combination.

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The last thing this new this month is the healthy stuff. Girl, you loves you some fruit. And apple is one of those words that you started saying very clearly this month. You can put the apples and cantaloupe down like nobody's business. When you tell us you're done with dinner, we'll offer you some apple or other fruit and you'll sit another 15 minutes chomping on grapes, apples, pineapple, anything sweet. Strawberries, not so much. In addition, we've started giving you vitamins in the morning to help you grow up nice and strong. I loved my Flintstones when I was a kid, but I'll tell you what. The Flintstones vitamins are six bucks a bottle, and the grocery store brand is just over three dollars, so you do just fine with your HEBuddy vitamins. The first day I gave you one, you looked at it, and said "I eat?" and put it in your mouth and crunched away at it.

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We want you to grow up to be a strong, healthy, well mannered little girl, and you're well on your way. Happy second birthday, and many, many more to come. We love you very much.

Love,
Dada

Sunday, June 08, 2008

So long, farewell, good bye.

Last week, a chapter closed in the educational history of San Antonio.


Horace Mann Middle School closed it's doors for business after 70+ years of service. The building will be re purposed, but it will no longer be the "Home of the Tigers."


It was the first place I ever held a teaching job. The first place I ever coached. The place where I started fiddling with computers. The place I met my wife.


It is a sad occasion when a school board makes political decisions that effect an entire community. The neighborhood around Horace Mann will no longer have a school to call their own.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Rachel Cougar Hendrix-Halen



She stood there for 20 minutes playing while I was folding clothes. A little rock star in the making.

Friday, May 09, 2008

Twenty Three Months

Dear Rachel,

Today, you turn twenty three months old. I can't believe that you're going to be two in a month.
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Of course, as I mentioned before, you've decided to start your terrible twos early, and it's really started in earnest the last couple of weeks. There are times when you're the sweetest, happiest child in the world, then half a second later there is fire shooting from your eyes. We're trying to cope, and we really hope this temper of yours tempers itself soon, or we might have to sell you to the gypsies.

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You are learning more and more words every day, and you do a really good job of repeating new words that we tell you. I can't even begin to tell you how many words you know now, but it's a lot, and you talk all the time. In fact, there are times that you talk so much, you forgot to do other things, like eat.

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Your brain is also starting to make indirect connections to things. The other night we were reading "Are You My Mother" and when the baby bird sees a boat, you pointed to the area the boat was in and said "wa-wa," even though the water wasn't colored blue and didn't really look like water in the picture. You just knew that boats go in the water. Amazing.

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You now understand that things are yours and ours. You'll point to something and say "It's mine" or "It's Dada's/Mama's." If we sit in the wrong chair at the table, you'll be sure to tell us who is supposed to sit there, and the other day in my car, you pointed to the passenger seat and said "It's Mama's."

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You have started helping us around the house, and will regularly tell us that you want to help: "I hap!" You help Mama with the laundry, you help me water the grass (but you didn't like getting wet so much), you help with the dishes, and you help with sweeping the floor. The master plan is taking shape...bwah ha ha ha!

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Finally, your coordination is getting really good. We bought you a little soccer ball this past month, and you love playing with it. You've gotten really good at dribbling the ball, and last night we ran all over the driveway with you keeping the ball under control. It was so cool to watch, and we can't wait to teach you more about the game!



Despite all the temper tantrums, we love every minute of watching you grow up. You are learning so many new things every day, it's amazing that we can keep up with you. We love you very much.

Love,
Dada

Friday, May 02, 2008

Rumblings

So, I haven't posted anything personally about Monica or I for quite a while. This has pretty much become the "Rachel blog," but the name at the top still says Laleblog, so I suppose it's time to let you all in on a little thing that's been going on the past month. I've been reluctant to say anything about it until now.

No, we're not pregnant.

I was offered a job.

The job I've been shooting for since we moved back to Texas: I was offered a position as a technology director.

The funny thing is, that even though I was really excited about the whole thing, there was just something about it.

I turned down the job.

Had this been two years ago, I probably would have jumped on the opportunity. But I'm older, you know? More mature.

OK, maybe not, but there were an awful lot of factors that came into play that I didn't even consider when I started the process of applying and interviewing for this job. In the end, the timing just wasn't right.

It's an interesting position to be in, getting an offer when you're not really looking. I'm really happy where I am, and while this would have been a fantastic opportunity, I absolutely made the right decision.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Dinner and Dancing

Rachel and I were jamming out the other night while we were eating dinner.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Twenty Two Months

Dear Rachel,

This past week, you turned 22 months old. Your world is becoming more and more open to us, as you're adding new words every day.

It was a very busy month for us, but before I get into all of the new things you're doing, you need to know about the very important person that is no longer with us.

Your Great-Grandma Jean died this past month, and while I don't know if you'll have memories of her, I'm happy that she got a chance to know you. You are the only child we'll ever have who knew Grandma Jean and that is something very special. She is the one who gave you your Raggedy Andy doll (or "nigh-nigh" as you call him). She loved you very much, and now she can watch over you every day.





You're learning more words every day, and while we still don't get everything you say, we're getting a lot more than we ever have. Before this month, you would just talk whether someone was listening or not. Now, you have to make sure that someone is listening to you before you say anything. Yes, we've reached the "Dada? Dada? Dada? Dada?" stage. You'll call one of our names until we acknowledge you, and then you'll tell us whatever it is you have to say.

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You're starting to learn your colors, and while you still get them wrong sometimes, you get them right a lot too. You know blue (boo), red (wed), and green (geen), and you'll say brown and orange. At first, everything was blue or red, and sometimes boowed, but now you're starting to point to colors and say either blue or red, then look at us as if to ask if you're right.

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You're starting to dress yourself more, and can get your pants or shorts on most of the time. You'll try to get socks on by yourself but the opening is still a little small, and you haven't learned how to stretch the socks out to make the opening bigger. But you're trying, and that's exciting.

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Grandma and Grandpa got you a sandbox last month before they left, and we finally got it set up and filled with sand, and you love playing in it. You can spend an awful lot of time scooping up sand, filling your bucket, then dumping over (usually on the deck). The first time we played in it, the sand was a little wet, and I helped you make a castle with the bucket. We'd fill it up, then I'd turn it over quickly and go "BOOM!" So now, your word for the sandbox is "a-boom."



You started walking Sparky on your own this month, but we're not quite ready for you to start taking him for walks around the neighborhood. He follows you pretty well, but I'm still worried about what might happen if he sees something he wants to chase while you're holding the leash. You learned to tell him "sit," "stay," and "heal," so you're well on your way to being the pack leader.

Sit, Sparky, sit...good dog.


Probably the most exciting thing this month was that you got to see snow for the first time. Despite the sad circumstances for us being up north and just the fact that it was indeed snowing in March, it was really cool to see you get so excited about the snow. It almost made we wish there had been more for you to play around in. Almost.

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Your second birthday is coming up quickly and we can hardly wait. You're becoming more of a little person and less of a baby every day. It's so much fun to watch you grown and learn. We love you very much.

Love,
Daddy

Friday, April 04, 2008

What's Old is New Again

I just received my Grandparent's 'weather station' this evening via UPS (thanks, Mom for sending it!). You know the one...it used to hang just to the right of the doorway. Here...let me show you:



OK, so not the most flattering picture of Grandma, but it's the only one I could find that showed where this thing was in her house.

Anyway, as you can tell from the picture, it has three dials on it. A thermometer, a barometer and a hygrometer (You know, it measures the humidity. Ha! Betcha didn't know that I actually knew the name for that. Well, I didn't. I had to look it up.)

It's been hanging in that same spot in Grandma's house for as long as I can remember. In fact, when I think of Grandma's house, it's one of the first things I remember. So anyway, when we were up north, I told Mom I was going to take it with me, and she said something about it needing a good cleaning. So when I got it this evening, I set about trying to clean it.

It's amazing what a difference a little glass cleaner can make. These first two were taken after I'd cleaned the thermometer, but not the other two:

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And you can see what cleaning just half of the face of the barometer looked like:

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Now it's all clean and shiny, and hanging in our house.

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Pack Leader

The title comes from what Dad had to say about this video - "She really is the pack leader."

The quality isn't great because it was shot with my cell phone. But, hey, it was shot with my cell phone.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Saturday, March 22, 2008

An unexpected trip

So, as most of you who read this blog already know, my Grandma Jean (mom's mom) passed away on St. Patrick's Day. This, of course, prompted a flurry of activity on our part in order to get up here for the memorial service on Friday.

Since trying to find airfare last minute is a financial nightmare, I decided to go with a "last minute" deal that you can find on certain websites. Unfortunately, this last minute fare had us leaving from Austin at 6 AM Friday.

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That wasn't the bad part, though. The weather had a little winter in store for us, and flying into Chicago turned out to be a bit more tricky than planned.

The reason we left Illinois


Luckily, we did make it, just 30 minutes late, which gave us plenty of time to get our car and drive to Geneseo. The memorial service was wonderful, and Mom made it through her speech about Grandma without too much trouble. Afterward, we had cookies and lemonade in the church basement, then went over to Grandma's house to say goodbye.




(Thanks to Aunt Linda for the pictures from Grandma's house)

Friday night, we hung out with the rest of the Laleman clan at Grandma Betty and Grandpa Al's house. Since they're in Florida, we had a house party and Rachel got totally trashed.

Hawaii!


We'll be in Illinois until Monday...enjoying this lovely weather.

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

It's Raining....mud?

So, yeah. We went out to dinner tonight and when we came out, all of the cars in the parking lot looked like this.

It's Raining Mud!
It's Raining Mud! (part II)
It's Raining Mud! (part III)


It's been a weird week...

Monday, March 17, 2008

Goodbye, Grandma Jean.

We sure were lucky to have known you.





Say hi to Grandpa for us.

Monday, March 10, 2008

Twenty One Months

Dear Rachel,

This past weekend, you turned 21 months old. I can't even begin to tell you how quickly it's all going by.

Your Grandparents were here for most of the month. Actually, your Grandpa Rick was here for the entire month. Grandma Connie was here for a couple of weeks, but had to go back to snowy, cold, Illinois in the middle of the month to take care of the book store.

Pretty girl, sneaky dog.

I think that trip back to Illinois sealed the deal in convincing Grandma that Texas is a wonderful place to be in the winter.

Having your grandparents here helped us out a bunch as far as taking care of you, but it also helped you to learn a lot of new things. Having two extra adults talking around you for a month helped open up your world to us as you started saying a whole bunch of new words.

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First and foremost, you now have names for your grandparents - Nana and Dodd. Nana is pretty easy to figure out. Your Grandma wanted something easy for you to say since "Grandma" is pretty hard for your mouth to figure out, but you got Nana right away. Dodd came from what you heard me saying all month. Whenever I'd talk to your Grandpa, I'd call him "Dad," so you started saying it too. Now, I'm Dada, and Grandpa is Dodd.

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You recognize buses now, and every time we go past one, you exclaim, "BUthhhhh!" and then when it's past, you say "bye bye buth." You even recognize the city busses as a bus. Your Grandma spent a lot of time with you singing "The Wheels on the Bus" song this past month, so buses are something you've taken a liking to.

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In addition to recognizing buses, you also recognize our vehicles. Every time you see a black SUV, you say "Mama's!" and every time you see my car you say "Dada's!" The fun part is when you think you see your Grandpa's truck. There's no shortage of white ford pickups in San Antonio and every time you see one you say "it's Dodd!"

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Your grandparents also taught you how to say "star," kind of. In the Eye Book, on one of the pages, your eyes see "Stars up in the sky!" so every time you see a star, whether it's on a cup, in a book, anywhere, you'll shout "SKY!" and we know that in your world, that means "star."

Hi!

Your favorite thing to do this month has been to ask us what everything is. Of course you picked that up from all of us constantly asking you "what is this?" and now every time you want one of us to ask you what something is, you'll point to it and say "is this?"

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The other really cool thing you started saying out of the blue was "have a good day" even though it comes out "good day." You just said it one day when I was dropping you off.

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You also now have a favorite TV show, Bob the Builder. Every time we turn on the TV, you ask "Bob?" You even have a Bob the Builder hat, and, well, I 'll let the picture speak for itself.

Bob and Bobette

I forgot to mention last month that you've started sitting on your potty. Miss Judy started with you last month, and you'll sit on it for us before you take a bath, but you're still not quite there yet.

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I'm sure I've left a bunch of things out, as this past month was just jam packed full of fun things for you. It's amazing to us how quickly you learn new things, and as always we can't wait to see what next month will bring. We love you very much.

Love,
Daddy